My first sticking point ever was kiss closing. When I started off I was decent and approach and quickly learned how to get a number and set up a fun first date. When the first date rolled around I would do ever thing perfect and get to the point where I know I could kiss the girl but anxiety would kick in and I would be to scared to go through with it.
I Probably went on 10 first dates with out making my move so then I thought about a routine I could use as a crutch until I felt comfortable going in for the kiss. What I came up with was a routine where you ask the person to close there eyes and just feel the energy touch gives off. Then you proceed to start to touch the hand and work your way up to the shoulders and the neck and any where else you feel comfortable building a bit of sexual tension once there. Once you have built enough sexual tension you ask them to focus all that energy into one spot I say lets concentrate it on the lips. I then put my fingers on her lips and tell to concentrate and focus on sending everything to her lips after a few seconds of that I will go in for the kiss.
I used this as a crutch for awhile until I had the courage to just go in for the kiss. If this routine isn't for you then I would recommend looking at mystery's kiss close and styles evolutionary technique.
Also I would like to take this time to announce I am going to start a group in the east bay where people wanting to learn the game or improve there game can come and discuss sticking points and new routines. It is going to be a kind of support group where we all help each other and every so often go out and practice what we learn. If anybody is interested email me or comment and I will give you the details on where we are meeting.
Until next time
HappyEndings
Friday, August 17, 2007
Monday, August 13, 2007
Make that big entrance
Alright I have started this blog to track my progress through the Pua community what you will read here will be my own experiences and routines I have made up. I welcome any one to try my routines and post on here on how it works for them or if they have any questions.
To start off I will tell you all a bit about myself I currently 20 years old and am about to turn 21 in 2 weeks through out high school I was always a pretty big dork I wore nothing but Hawaiian shirts a come over hair cut passed down to me by my father and glasses way to big for my face needless to say I wasn't the guy that every woman swooned over. Right After high school I ended up getting into a bad relationship that lasted 3 years which was about a year longer than it should have lasted but thats besides the point and I did what everyone does after there first love break there heart I got into a depression and lost all hope that there was anyone decent out there for me and all the things that come along with heart ache (If any of you have gone through this I am sure you are reflecting right now and you can still kinda feel that feeling in the pit of your stomach) After a couple months on being stuck on that girl my sister introduces me to the book "The Game" and tells me about a person that she has talked to about all this stuff and owns a successful company teaching guys this the game and like any other guy in the world I get hooked (come on a way to get any girl in the world you have ever wanted you cant tell me you wouldn't have instantly jumped at the chance to learn that) and thus I am thrust into the pua community with not a clue of where to start besides to read the book my sister recommended for me "The Game"
Alright I will write more about my story of that later for now I will leave with that part and a quick routine I have made up.
So this is one I made up because I had to think of a way to approach a group of hb9's at a restaurant one day and didnt want to stand at the end of there table like a chump while they stuff there faces and wonder when I am going to leave.
So I call the waitress over and ask her to bring 4 cups of ice water (they were with two guys at the time) to the table with those two girls sitting there and to let them know the water is on me. So she does so and when she brings the water and I see her point at me I give them the ol pistol finger and wink and they smile which I take as a queue to go over and talk to them. We chat it up all night I make nice with the boy and make even nicer with the girls exchange numbers and get my cheek kisses and return to my friends.
To start off I will tell you all a bit about myself I currently 20 years old and am about to turn 21 in 2 weeks through out high school I was always a pretty big dork I wore nothing but Hawaiian shirts a come over hair cut passed down to me by my father and glasses way to big for my face needless to say I wasn't the guy that every woman swooned over. Right After high school I ended up getting into a bad relationship that lasted 3 years which was about a year longer than it should have lasted but thats besides the point and I did what everyone does after there first love break there heart I got into a depression and lost all hope that there was anyone decent out there for me and all the things that come along with heart ache (If any of you have gone through this I am sure you are reflecting right now and you can still kinda feel that feeling in the pit of your stomach) After a couple months on being stuck on that girl my sister introduces me to the book "The Game" and tells me about a person that she has talked to about all this stuff and owns a successful company teaching guys this the game and like any other guy in the world I get hooked (come on a way to get any girl in the world you have ever wanted you cant tell me you wouldn't have instantly jumped at the chance to learn that) and thus I am thrust into the pua community with not a clue of where to start besides to read the book my sister recommended for me "The Game"
Alright I will write more about my story of that later for now I will leave with that part and a quick routine I have made up.
So this is one I made up because I had to think of a way to approach a group of hb9's at a restaurant one day and didnt want to stand at the end of there table like a chump while they stuff there faces and wonder when I am going to leave.
So I call the waitress over and ask her to bring 4 cups of ice water (they were with two guys at the time) to the table with those two girls sitting there and to let them know the water is on me. So she does so and when she brings the water and I see her point at me I give them the ol pistol finger and wink and they smile which I take as a queue to go over and talk to them. We chat it up all night I make nice with the boy and make even nicer with the girls exchange numbers and get my cheek kisses and return to my friends.
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